Equality?

 Are men and women equal?  

Women are spiritually superior to men by birth. They are instinctively connected to God. They speak the language of heart.

But no religion gives equal rights to women. They are treated inferiorly in the material world. The modern women, to offset this, are flourishing in the material world, thereby losing their spiritual superiority. 

Women come with a readiness to learn. Because there is certain degree of submissiveness in a woman.  That makes them a quick learner. But what they choose to learn makes them either to grow spiritually and really become superior or fight equally losing their originality.

Marriage brings a sea change in a woman's life. She is expected to live for others. She is expected to serve others.  A traditional woman naturally takes up this challenge and comes out successful. That is the lesson to be learnt in marriage by a woman.

Setting aside one's priorities and thinking about others is the spiritual lesson they learn.  Once such a lesson  is learnt,she has passed her first test in this world. Such a woman is infectiously happy. That is the true bliss of marriage for a woman. Our happy mothers are proof of this. Yes, it takes that long for a woman to attain marital bliss. Unlike men!!

But does that make her equal? No. She is loved and wanted. Still man is superior. Because he earns and fulfills her needs. 

When she ventures into the next step, she tastes success. 

By taking more interests in religious routines, she can train herself to reduce her wants. Routines like fasting should form regular part of her life.  When she draws her inspiration from a higher source she is constantly guided to live a simple life. Thus when she detaches herself from all the comfort which she derives from the family, she is gifted with a view of seeing people as they are. The fault and goodness of the loved ones are seen as either black or white, without attaching any shade to it. She will be in a position to guide others.

Very few ladies venture into this area unless life forces them. 

Only when she does it she grows into a superior being. 

When a woman confines herself to fulfilling the bodily needs of man and children, she is only looked down upon.  Usually in her efforts to be a good housewife, she belittles herself.  Her culinary skills and interest on good looks definitely makes her wanted but not give her the superiority or respect she craves. 

When a woman chooses to learn, she chooses home. That has the scope of even giving her enlightenment.  Just be in touch with the subtler part of you. You are uplifted. 

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